10 Common Financial Questions When Going Through A Divorce

By Chad Foster, CFP®, ChFEBC℠, CDFA®

Wealth Manager, Principal

July 13, 2023

Sometimes the hardest questions when going through a divorce are those that you aren’t aware you should be asking. Thus, I wanted to summarize below the most common questions I answer and topics I prioritize with my clients as we work through their divorce.

How does the state I live in affect how marital assets are divided?

There are nine states in the U.S. that are referred to as “community property states” where marital assets and debts incurred by either spouse during a marriage are split 50/50. These states are Louisiana, Arizona, California, Texas, Washington, Idaho, Nevada, New Mexico and Wisconsin. All other states are referred to as “non-community property states” where the assets and debts may be split equitably, whatever is deemed as fair by both parties.


How do I know if I am getting a fair deal?

This is a question that your attorney may be able to answer, but consulting with a financial planner and running various scenarios is important to do before the divorce decree is finalized. Once the divorce decree is finalized, going back is nearly impossible. You should not sign the divorce decree until you fully understand what you are getting and what your spouse will be receiving.


What taxes should I consider?

An important thing to know is that not all tax is created equal. Taxation depends on what type of account the monies are in. You should determine if the monies are in a tax-deferred account or taxable account. If the assets are in a taxable account, determine if the assets have been held a year or longer. When splitting up assets it is important to pay attention to what account you may be receiving and what the cost basis is. The answers to all these questions will help determine the appropriate tax rate.


Is alimony/spousal benefit taxable?

Maybe. This depends on when your divorce was finalized. If a judge finalized your divorce by December 31, 2018, then your alimony/spousal benefit will be taxable to the recipient and tax deductible to the payor. If the divorce was finalized after that date, then the alimony payments will not be taxable to the recipient and the payor will not be able to deduct the payments.


Is child support taxable and how long will it last?

Child support is not taxable, and the duration may vary. Depending on the state you live in and other factors, on average you can expect to pay child support until the child is 18, 19 or 20 years old.


What is a QDRO and do I need one?

A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is a document used to split assets that are in a qualified retirement plan that meets the requirements of The Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 (ERISA). A QDRO is a document a lawyer typically drafts and is an additional cost. If one spouse has a 401k, 403b or 457, a QDRO is typically needed. To make sure a retirement plan can be split, the spouse should reach out to the plan administrator to confirm what paperwork they may need other than the QDRO. If you have an IRA, that can typically be split via paperwork at the custodian or broker where the IRA is held.


Should we split our debts in half?

The answer to this question depends on how much debt there is and what form of debt it is. One thing that should be done is to avoid having both spouses attached to the debt. If one spouse decides not to pay this, it could affect the other spouse paying their share. Look to refinance your home loan or auto loan, so only one spouse takes responsibility to pay it off, if you can, and if there is a reasonable balance to do so.


Should I keep the primary residence after a divorce?

This may be a top goal for one spouse but if the cash flow is going to be strained it may not be the best decision. If it looks like the house may need to be sold, consider putting the house on the market as soon as possible. There may be some tax benefits if the house has appreciated.


What do I need to consider regarding my credit?

Getting a divorce does not necessarily mean that your credit score will be directly affected. Going through a divorce may be a highly emotional event so ensure timely credit card payments, review any joint accounts and determine next steps, and make sure if you move that your address is up to date so that bills are sent to the right address.


What else should I consider or review?

One thing that may be missed is updating beneficiaries on any account that has a beneficiary designation. For example, if you go through a divorce and time goes by and your ex-spouse is listed as the beneficiary, then they will be the one getting the funds if you were to pass away. There may be a way to fight it, but something your heirs may not want to be involved with.


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